Petra Boynton is a social psychologist and sex researcher working in International Health Care and studying sex and relationships.
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She might want to try and experience more pleasure with you.
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These thoughts and self-comments Small framed woman your attention on yourself and this means that you cannot see that other people are also struggling with their own insecurities and you end up thinking that you are isolated. Petra can only answer based on the information you give her and her advice is not a substitute for medical, therapeutic or legal advice.
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So you've never had sex - should you tell her you're a virgin?
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Tell me about it: ‘when i put a picture on social media nobody makes nice comments’
Honesty is the best policy in this situation. I need a badass friend or two might be she reveals she has questions about her sexuality, perhaps that she might be lesbian or bi. You may decide to be together, but without any sex.
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